Change is messy. It has to be. Chaos gives birth to order.
So just allow space for both to exist and learn how to know the difference between the two and when they are in service to your path or not.
And don’t believe that the “good” path is only the one that tells you the “good” things, you know, the things you want to hear? Good coaches push you hard, good friends tell you the truth and the good path is sometimes painful. It’s painful because it means you have to be willing to see your own undistorted reflection and do something about the parts in need of repair.